I can't believe that I'm celebrating the last year of my 20s. A lot of things have happened since I turned 20–from life realizations to choosing your battles wisely. Here are some of the things I have learned since I turned 20.
1) You are not everyone's cup of tea. The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you. Worse, they will try to bring you down. Instead of showing them your inner demon, kill them with kindness. Learn the subtle art of not giving a fuck (good book, by the way). Promise, it will save you time and energy.
2) It is easier to admit your mistakes than to deny it. If you did something wrong or offensive, say sorry. If someone points out your wrongdoings but praises your achievements whether big or small, thank that person. Treasure that person.
3) You know yourself better than anyone else.
4) You are as good of a person as you choose to be. Over the last couple of years, I have made the conscious decision to be a good person, and it has transformed my life for the better. I didn’t do this for religious reasons. I rediscovered who I am and realized that being 'good' feels more natural than being manipulative, or anything less than good.
5) A tall glass of beer is good, but a cup of black coffee is always better.
6) Some people come and go, and it is okay.
I am forever grateful for having a very loving and supportive family, and true friends who are always on my side. They always remind me that I shouldn't stop dreaming big. My life goal is to look younger than my age when I hit my 40s or my 50s. LOL.
PS: It's my first time to celebrate my birthday in my hometown. I've been celebrating my birthdays abroad since 2015.
PPS: LOLJK, will celebrate my post-birthday trip at the land down under in 6 days! HAHA.
1) You are not everyone's cup of tea. The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you. Worse, they will try to bring you down. Instead of showing them your inner demon, kill them with kindness. Learn the subtle art of not giving a fuck (good book, by the way). Promise, it will save you time and energy.
2) It is easier to admit your mistakes than to deny it. If you did something wrong or offensive, say sorry. If someone points out your wrongdoings but praises your achievements whether big or small, thank that person. Treasure that person.
3) You know yourself better than anyone else.
4) You are as good of a person as you choose to be. Over the last couple of years, I have made the conscious decision to be a good person, and it has transformed my life for the better. I didn’t do this for religious reasons. I rediscovered who I am and realized that being 'good' feels more natural than being manipulative, or anything less than good.
5) A tall glass of beer is good, but a cup of black coffee is always better.
6) Some people come and go, and it is okay.
I am forever grateful for having a very loving and supportive family, and true friends who are always on my side. They always remind me that I shouldn't stop dreaming big. My life goal is to look younger than my age when I hit my 40s or my 50s. LOL.
PS: It's my first time to celebrate my birthday in my hometown. I've been celebrating my birthdays abroad since 2015.
PPS: LOLJK, will celebrate my post-birthday trip at the land down under in 6 days! HAHA.
